{"id":144,"date":"2008-03-10T09:39:35","date_gmt":"2008-03-10T15:39:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chriswisniaarts.com\/blog\/?p=144"},"modified":"2010-04-26T11:24:00","modified_gmt":"2010-04-26T17:24:00","slug":"132-getting-a-pleasant-phone-call","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chriswisniaarts.com\/blog\/archives\/144","title":{"rendered":"132. GETTING A PLEASANT PHONE CALL"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>October 5, 2006<\/h1>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Well, it had been over a year of sending emails and not getting any response.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>And I didn\u2019t have any other contact info.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>And even if I did, he lives in England, which isn\u2019t easy to pop over to.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>So I was beginning to worry a bit, especially since he didn\u2019t even show up at San Diego this year, and that\u2019s basically my only chance ever to see him.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>But finally, a year and a third later, I made contact with Simon Bisley, regarding the pin-up I paid him for, in advance, at San Diego Con 2005.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Over that year plus period, numerous emails I\u2019d sent him remained unreplied.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>I finally sent an email telling him we were going to have a baby, but no answer.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Then I wrote him to say it would be a boy, and we were naming him Oscar, but no answer.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>I thought to myself, Well, those are the best I could do, to try and inspire him to write back.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>If he doesn\u2019t respond after that, maybe he isn\u2019t going to write.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>After we had Oscar, and after we had gone to San Diego and he wasn\u2019t there, I finally sent another email, telling Simon about the birth of our boy, and how vividly and touchingly I remembered him talking about the love he had for his own kids, when we last saw him over dinner at San Diego 2005.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>I gave a little description of what Elizabeth and I were up to, and what a handful Oscar was.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>I mentioned it had been so long since I\u2019d heard from him, and we\u2019d love if he would contact us, and that we have a new address for him to send the pin-up when he\u2019s finished.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Notice how subtly I slipped that in.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">A few days later, I got a short email reply from him, saying to give him our phone number, and he\u2019d call, because it\u2019s easier than doing emails.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>I immediately sent him our phone number, and when he didn\u2019t call that weekend, I sent another email saying I was surprised, because I was so sure he would have called.<span>\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">That same week, my pin-up came in the mail from Luis Dominguez, so I was thinking of other comics artists.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>That Thursday our phone rang, and I couldn\u2019t understand who the person said it was, but I heard him say something about a pin-up.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cI\u2019m sorry, I didn\u2019t catch who you said this is?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cIt\u2019s Simon,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">OH, SIMON!<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Great to hear from you!<span>\u00a0 <\/span>We visited for some time.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>He said, as usual, how great he thinks we are, and that he was sorry he hadn\u2019t gotten to the pin-up, but that he thought he\u2019d have it done by the end of October (which gives him a few weeks yet).<span>\u00a0 <\/span>He said he wanted to do a creature coming out of the sea, and attacking the docks or the city on the coast.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I told him I was sad to have missed him at San Diego, and he said he would have liked to have come.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>But he didn\u2019t say why he didn\u2019t make it, even after I told him he\u2019d been listed in the catalogue to appear at the Heavy Metal booth.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>He asked if we would be coming to Bristol, and I said we thought it might be a little rough bringing our baby, but said if he\u2019d like to put us up at his place, we would definitely come out.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>He paused for a moment, and I thought it was an awkward silence, but then I realized he just didn\u2019t understand what I said.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Simon and I have this consistent difficulty understanding each other, with our different accents.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>He teases me about mine, and I tease him about his.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>We\u2019re always asking each other to repeat ourselves, or explain just what the hell we mean to each other.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Later in the conversation I had to tell him I couldn\u2019t understand his accent, because we were both just talking and not understanding each other.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>I suspect we\u2019re always MOSTLY communicating with each other, but who knows what subtleties, or even essential little tidbits, we\u2019re always missing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">He asked how my self-publishing was going, and I made my usual reply that I\u2019m losing money every issue I put out, and I\u2019m basically struggling just to try and get my work seen out there.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>He sympathized, and said that all the artists he talks to are having trouble getting work right now.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>That surprised me, because it seems like there\u2019s so much interest in comics right now.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>I assumed, even though I\u2019m doing my usual struggling, that a lot of other comics artists are doing pretty well.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">He joked that he made some good money a couple years ago, from some sap who paid him to do a pin-up.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Then he immediately said he was just kidding, and he\u2019d do my pin-up.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>But the real joke was that the amount of money he said he\u2019d made from the sap was actually only half of what that sap had paid him, so I began to wonder just what quality of pin-up that sap will be getting.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">It was a real nice visit, and he gave me his address and phone numbers, and he said he wasn\u2019t real good with emails, but he\u2019s got it figured out now.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">He gave me a the phone number about three times, and each time it was different.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>He\u2019d say, This is my number.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>No wait, what\u2019s my number?<span>\u00a0 <\/span>And then I would repeat what he told me, and he\u2019d say, no, no, it\u2019s this.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>So I wrote down everything he said separately, just in the hopes that maybe one of them would be right, if I needed to ever try and reach him.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>Each number even had different amounts of digits.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>It was amazing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->\u00a0<!--[endif]--><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">And then the same happened when he gave me his address.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>He couldn\u2019t remember the street, and then his address would have either four or five numbers in it.<span>\u00a0 <\/span>What the hell\u2026<\/p>\n<p 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